Hey Red, how you doing bro?
I did a little research for you about the small meals instead than 3 huge ones.
"By eating frequently you achieve the following:
1. Eating frequently prevents hunger pangs and curbs over eating.
2. Eating more often keeps your metabolism working quickly so you burn calories more efficiently.
3. Food is also absorbed more efficiently and quickly when we eat regularly.
In affect you will feel healthier and have more energy as you will be using your metabolism as nature intended.
This is what healthy dieting is all about: Creating the ultimate conditions to burn fat, in the most efficient way and never feeling hungry."
"The principle behind having small frequent meals is to maintain a steady supply of sugar/glucose in the body, thus preventing the large falls and rises of blood sugar associated with the traditional three large meals a day. The regulation of blood sugar is controlled within our body by the hormone insulin and a sudden large rise in blood sugar promotes its production. Insulin is associated with the storage of fat."
If your interested in some more info, here's the links i got it from:
http://www.ivillage.co.uk/dietandfitness/wtmngment/diets/articles/0,,249_541380,00.html
http://ezinearticles.com/?Healthy-Dieting:-Eat-5-Meals-a-Day-and-Lose-Weight!&id=143110
(the second link wont work if you click. try copy/pasting the whole line)
Hope this helps, and welcome to the group!